This article on Collaborating is one in a series of five about managing conflict and negotiation using the Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument. The introduction to the five-part series begins here. Links
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It’s hard to be assertive. It’s even more hard when you have to say NO assertively. NO. Is there a more difficult word in the English language? It’s difficult to
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Sound dumb, doesn’t it? I mean, come on: How do you ask a question? When I ask participants in my workshops, I get a lot of blank stares. Sometimes, people
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