Many people deservedly know Don Miguel Ruiz from his appearances on Oprah Winfrey’s television show to speak about his philosophy in the book The Four Agreements.
I’ve owned the book for some time. When I re-read it recently, I was again struck by its relevance to business.
If the New Age / Aquarian elements of its core philosophy turn you off, you’d be missing some clear tenets describing the positive behaviours of:
- Effective leaders
- Creative thinkers and
- Team members
Be impeccable with your word.
Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using words to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth.
Don’t take anything personally.
Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality and their own dreams. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim.
Don’t make assumptions.
Find the courage to ask questions and express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life.
Always do your best.
Your best is going to change from moment to moment. It will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse and regret.
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wow, I got a mention… thanks…